When you and your partner find a position that works, you don’t want to veer too far off that path. It can feel like you’re tempting fate if you try something too new, but doing the same thing over and over again is likely to lead to boredom. And since so much of a woman’s orgasm is mental as much as it is physical, boredom can kill the mood of your night fast. There are small ways you can change up your routine, though, without breaking out the whips and chains. These three changes to common sex positions can spice up your routine while keeping the mood as steamy as it was the first time.
Let her try it on top
If you’re a fan of the traditional missionary position, try flipping it around for the night. There are a lot of benefits to letting her get on top for the night, one of which is that she’s likely to get off faster. When a woman is on top she has better control over the angle of your thrusts as well as the speed, letting her shift around until she finds the perfect position faster than you could have alone. It also leaves your hands free, allowing you to explore her body as she rides you in addition to the fantastic view you’ll have. If you want to make sure she leaves the bedroom satisfied, switch it up and let her take the steering wheel for awhile.
Give each other oral at the same time
If you want to know how to get more pleasure out of your oral sex routine, you’ll be happy to hear that you can double it with one simple tweak. Giving each other oral at the same time is a really exciting thrill and far less complicated than it sounds. If both of you lie on your sides while scissoring your legs, you’ll each have easier access to your respective goods. It gives you both a great vantage point to stimulate each other orally or manually, meaning you don’t have to take turns and hope your partner’s in the mood to reciprocate afterwards. Try touching her clit with a vibrator or sucking on her clit while slipping in a couple of fingers while she’s sucking you off and see how wild you can really make her.
Spice up your spoon
Spooning with your girl is a great way to wind down a night of great sex, but did you know that it could be the start of a great night too? Spooning isn’t just for cuddling, it’s also a great sex position that allows for shallower penetration that’s fantastic for the woman who doesn’t like it too deep. As you thrust your penis creates friction along the front of her vagina, the area that has the largest cluster of nerves, which makes the entire experience far more stimulating for her. It’s also a much tighter fit at that angle, meaning each squeeze or thrust is providing that much more pressure for you at the same time.