Whether you are trying to make yourself more attractive so that you can increase your pickup percentage at your favorite night club or you want to rekindle the fire with your significant other, here are 7 ways to instantly make yourself more attractive to the female persuasion.
Adjust Your Attitude
Smile, sometimes. Everyone enjoys the company of someone who is happy but research suggests that women find men who smile all the time less attractive than those who are brooding and arrogant. Women have an unconscious, primitive desire to seek out sexual partners that they believe would give them good genes for their offspring. Broodiness suggests that you are mentally strong and confident; traits they would want for their children. But don’t go overboard. Women do like a degree of broodiness and arrogance but that doesn’t mean they like assholes.
De-stress. Whether it’s working out or meditating, learn to manage your stress. Women are more attracted to men who are less stressed. It demonstrates strength and resiliency and an ability to handle whatever life throws your way. All character traits that women find very attractive.
Confidence is key. Women are more attracted to men who appear to be confident than those who are not. This is assessed based on how you dress and behave. Confidence suggests that you are comfortable with who you are and this is a quality that women find very attractive.
Fashion Advice to Make Yourself More Attractive
Dress to Impress. It’s an old adage but it’s true, just ask Barney Stinson (How I Met Your Mother). This character won’t be seen without a suit and the women fall at his feet wherever he goes. When you don a suit you portray confidence and suggest that you are succeeding in life. It means that you understand that appearances are important and put in the time to make a good impression. Women find confidence instantly attractive.
If you don’t have a suit in the closet, try a white t-shirt with a large black letter T on it. Researchers at Nottingham Trent University in the U.K. found that women who saw a man wearing a white t-shirt with a black letter T on it rated him 12% more attractive than men wearing plain white t-shirts or those wearing white t-shirts with an inverted black T on it. The T made the men look like they had broader shoulders and slimmer waist lines which women generally find attractive.
Be mysterious. When just getting to know a man, women find men more attractive when they can’t get a complete handle on how he feels. So even if you are crazy about this new girl, keep it to yourself for now. If she can’t get a clear read on how you feel she’s likely to spend more time thinking about you, especially if she likes you too.
Shave your beard. Women are more attracted to men who don’t have facial hair. In a survey done by ebay fashion 1000 women were surveyed and asked if they like beards. Only 55% reported yes, whereas 75% of men said they like them. Moreover, a study done by Tinder and Gillette which looked at the profiles of 100,000 college age male account holders found that 74% of those that received “right swipes” or likes, went to men without facial hair. When the men with beards were asked to shave them off and upload photos of their new looks, that increased their “right swipes” by 19%.
The bottom line is that with the right attitude and appearance it’s easy to make yourself instantly more attractive to the women you’re attracted to.