Do you know whether or not you’re actually cheating?Cheating is not just having sex with other women than your girlfriend/wife, it’s much more than that; it’s breaking a vow of commitment and a self commitment as well. So many men think that if you don’t have sex with your mistress that’s not cheating which is not true.
The worst kind of cheating
When you have sex with another woman, your girl maybe could consider having an affair is a mistake and she might forgive you or even blame herself for being too busy working. Nevertheless, what a lady would never forgive is when you love another one because it means you don’t love her anymore or you didn’t even love her in the first place. Breaking your woman’s heart by loving another one is the worst kind of cheating ever. Infidelity could literally cause mental health problems and could drive a woman crazy especially if she is faithful.
Moreover, there are other kinds of cheating that some men convince themselves that it’s not cheating but it actually is; like flirting with other girls all the time. What can flirting possibly lead to? It probably will end up with adultery, isn’t it? A man would only flirt with a woman that he’s attracted to physically! And when I say flirting I don’t mean being nice! There is some kind of flirting that ends up in bed and that’s the kind I’m talking about here, so, do not fool yourself and think that you can control it because eventually you will cheat.
I believe that loving anyone more than your woman is considered cheating. If you love your girl friend more than your woman than you probably don’t love your woman enough because love is not only about sex, it’s mainly about feelings. You must always give her the feelings she needs and you must always remember the vow even if you are not married because once you said “I love you” you vowed not only to love her at that moment but forever no matter how hard it is sometimes. Always put your woman first!
Online cheating is the biggest lie ever
Don’t ever fool yourself thinking that you are not cheating when you flirt with girls online! Online cheating is one of the most irritating types of cheating for women when they figure it out. When a woman figures out her man is cheating online it makes her feel that she is not good enough, it makes her feel insecure and it makes her feel pity for him which is never good.
This could make the lady lose confidence in herself and the picture of her man in her head will definitely change; from a strong and a caring man to a pathetic jerk who can’t control himself. Also, it will be so hard for her to trust him again no matter how much he regrets it. So, do not ever think that you will have some fun and forget about it, because once you are in, you are never out and shit starts to get real.
Therefore, put in mind that every act you do in secret is counted as cheating, every act that you think your woman will get disturbed from counts as cheating too and every single act that doesn’t include your woman is cheating as well! Don’t you ever blame her for your weakness and your mistakes! Even if she is busy, that doesn’t give you the right to cheat on her, perhaps you better go and talk to her or even show her how much you love and miss her and she will surely understand the message.
